With heavy hearts, we honor the life and legacy of Dean Paganelis, a dedicated referee, beloved friend, and cherished member of the San Jose community, who passed away unexpectedly. Dean’s unwavering passion for the game of hockey and his profound impact on those around him will never be forgotten.
For years, Dean was a fixture at Sharks Ice, officiating an astounding 6,255 games—a true testament to his love for the sport, his commitment to fairness, and his deep connection to the hockey world. His presence on the ice was not just about enforcing the rules; it was about fostering sportsmanship, respect, and a love for the game that he held so dear. Dean didn’t just officiate the games; he shaped them, ensuring that every player, coach, and fan experienced the true essence of hockey.
Dean’s love for hockey was evident in every game he officiated. Whether it was a youth match filled with excited young players, a fiercely competitive adult league game, or a casual late-night skate, he approached each game with dedication, professionalism, and an unshakable respect for the sport. He was known for his quiet confidence, always in control of the game yet never overshadowing the players. His ability to balance authority with approachability made him a beloved figure at Sharks Ice, and his influence reached beyond the rink.
Dean’s impact wasn’t limited to his role as a referee. He was a mentor and friend to many, offering wisdom and guidance to new officials and sharing his knowledge of the game with players at all levels. He believed that referees played an essential part in shaping the game and ensuring that hockey remained a sport of integrity and passion. His deep respect for the sport and its players earned him admiration from coaches, players, and fellow referees alike.
It was in his role as a mentor that Dean truly shined. He didn’t just enforce the rules; he taught the values that make hockey a sport like no other. Fair play, respect for the game, and sportsmanship were all principles he championed. Dean took pride in his work, but his pride was always rooted in the integrity of the game. He understood that hockey was more than just a sport—it was a way of life, and he carried that understanding with him in every whistle he blew and every decision he made on the ice.
Beyond the ice, Dean was known for his genuine kindness, humility, and unique rituals that made him unforgettable. He had a quiet yet impactful way of making people feel valued—whether through a subtle nod, a knowing smile, or the countless small traditions that became part of his identity at Sharks Ice. He was the kind of man who made others feel at ease, whether they were a nervous rookie player or a seasoned coach. Dean’s presence in the locker room was always reassuring, and his words of encouragement were a constant source of strength for many.
Those who knew him well will remember the pre-game routines he never skipped, the inside jokes shared in the locker room, and the unwavering support he showed for everyone around him. Dean’s rituals were his way of grounding himself in the game he loved and ensuring that each moment on the ice was meaningful. His focus and dedication were evident in everything he did, and his rituals became a part of the very fabric of Sharks Ice. He didn’t just officiate hockey games—he embodied the spirit of the game, bringing a sense of unity and joy to every match he was a part of.
Dean was a man of habit, a man of principle, and most importantly, a man who touched lives through the simplest acts of kindness. Whether it was lending a hand to a fellow referee, offering words of encouragement to a young player, or simply sharing a laugh with a colleague, Dean’s kindness was ever-present. He had a way of making everyone feel seen and heard, and he approached life with a sense of humor that was infectious. His laughter was a constant reminder that, even in the intensity of a competitive game, there was always room for joy and camaraderie.
The loss of Dean Paganelis leaves an undeniable void in the hockey community, but his legacy will endure in the countless games he officiated, the friendships he built, and the respect he earned over the years. The echoes of his whistle, the countless players who learned from him, and the spirit of fairness and camaraderie he championed will live on. Dean’s commitment to the game and his ability to bring people together will continue to resonate with everyone who had the privilege of working alongside him.
To his family, friends, fellow referees, and the entire Sharks Ice community, we extend our deepest condolences. The impact of his loss is immeasurable, but the love and admiration he inspired will never fade. Dean’s legacy will live on through the stories shared by those who knew him, the lessons he imparted, and the example he set. He taught us all that sports are more than just a game—they are a place where we can come together, challenge ourselves, and show respect for each other.
Dean’s passing is a stark reminder of how fleeting life can be, but also of the lasting impact we can have on the people around us. In honoring his memory, we are reminded to cherish every moment, to appreciate the people who make our lives richer, and to always approach life with kindness, humor, and a love for the things that matter most. Dean’s commitment to fairness, respect, and camaraderie will continue to guide us as we carry his memory forward.
As we remember Dean, let us honor him by continuing to spread the values he embodied—fairness, respect, and a deep appreciation for the game and the people who make it special. Let us celebrate the love he had for hockey, the friendships he forged, and the countless lives he touched. Dean’s legacy is one of kindness, wisdom, and unwavering dedication to the game he loved, and it is in that spirit that we continue to remember and cherish his memory.
Rest in peace, Dean Paganelis. You were more than a referee; you were a mentor, a friend, and a true legend on the ice. You will be deeply missed but never forgotten.
